Midweek Hustle: 5 Signs She’s Just Not That Into You

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Happy Humpday Purgators!

We hope you are all having a fabulous week and that the time change isn’t kicking your ass too hard.

This week as we were perusing through our Twitter feed we noticed a common trend, there were tons of people questioning whether their potential suiters were actually interested in them. This reminded us of one of our favourite movies, “He’s Just Not That Into You.” Although this movie was funny and sweet it was also a major eye opener for any woman watching, allowing them to fully see the signs of when a guy is not into them.

Obviously we cannot speak for our male counterparts and oftentimes still make excuses for them even when deep down we know they’re just not that into us but can we can offer a woman’s perspective on how to tell if she’s just not into you.

Yes, we’ve had our fair share of guys who have been more invested in us than we were in them and there is always a common denominator in how we respond.

1. She Doesn’t Text You Back

If you’re sending her text messages, snapchats or even Facebook messaging and she’s not responding to any, that’s a major red flag. Even if she does text you back, if she’s taking hours or even days to respond #ShesJustNotThatIntoYouBro

2. She Ends The Date With, “I Had A Nice Time. Have A Good Night”

If a girl finishes the date without bringing up a second date or implying some sort of follow up conversation #ShesJustNotThatIntoYouBro

3. She Talks About Other Guys She’s Interested In To You

If you’ve been friend zoned and are trying to desperately get out of said friend zone, don’t even bother. If she’s bringing up other guys that she’s interested in or going on dates with #ShesJustNotThatIntoYouBro

4. She’s Always “Busy”

If you had a first date and are trying to score a second one but she’s always “busy” or has plans #ShesJustNotThatIntoYouBro

5. The Only Time She Texts You Is When She’s Drunk

We like to call it a “late night lay.” She might find you attractive but you’re definitely not (her) boyfriend material. If the only time you hear from her is at 2am after she’s left the club with her girls and she’s asking you to come over #ShesJustNotThatIntoYouBro

So there you have it, a few simple ways to tell if a girl is just not that into you. Hopefully this helps and good luck out there!


-The Blonde & The Brunette



  1. TheSerialDatist · March 17, 2016

    Dating, and people, are such shit.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Date Ideas London (@LDNdater) · March 29, 2016

    Just stumbled across you girls. I think I found my new favourite blog.

    Anyways, I think most lads would take this list as a win, as long as #5 was on the cards.

    Off to share this post on Twitter right now!

    Liked by 1 person

    • Blonde&Brunette · March 29, 2016

      Thank you so much! We’re so happy to hear you like what we had to say…lads always take a lay as a win 😉


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