Midweek Hustle: Dear Single Men


Happy Humpday Purgators!

Recently we’ve heard a lot of chatter about gender stereotypes and how “easy” it is for one sex in comparison to the other when it comes to dating. Here is our open letter to all single men out there who think it’s so easy to be a woman.

Dear single men,

There a few things that we’ve been wanting to clear up with you for some time now, call it a stereotype, a preconceived notion, whatever you want but we need to set the record straight.

Women only like assholes. Many of you seem to think women only go for assholes, we only like the bad boys if you will. This could not be further from the truth, we just don’t like you. Stop putting the blame on women as a whole every time you are rejected, it’s not fair. You can’t pass the blame to other people every time someone tells you no.

It’s so easy for us to get laid. News flash! Women like sex just as much as men do but it doesn’t mean that we get it as easily as you think we do. We can’t just snap our fingers and have that guy we’ve been eying all night naked and in our bed – it doesn’t work that way for us just as much as it doesn’t work that way for you.

All we’re after is your wallet. Yes, we like nice things but who doesn’t? You can have a fat wallet with no personality and most women would not go for you. If you’re that concerned that women are going after your money don’t flaunt it, people who have money don’t talk about money. If you think that the only reason you don’t have a girlfriend is because you don’t make a lot of money – you’re looking at the wrong women honey.

We’re all dramatic and emotionally unstable. What?! Oh my gosh! Why would you say that? Is everything okay? Do you not like me? You’re such an asshole! Jk, we’re not that crazy and when we are, it’s all your fault (or maybe it’s that lovely time of the month). In all honesty though, crazy is a state of mind not a personality trait. There are as many crazy men out there as there are crazy women.

Dating and relationships is scary for both sexes and the more all of us understand that the easier this all just may get.

Yours truly,

The Blonde & The Brunette



  1. Great post! I think that men who think that women can get laid at any time forgot two things: 1st, yes, they probably could but not with who they’d want to get laid with and 2nd, the same holds true for most men. Anyone can get laid today if they really wanted too, but maybe not with a person they’d actually want to sleep with.

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  2. SingleGirlsAnonymous · June 15, 2016

    love this post! All so ture! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  3. Matt · June 16, 2016

    The fact that you have a blog detailing your dates and interactions with men is the very definition of dramatic… For 27 year old women who’s biological clocks are ticking you have a lot of growing up to do and fast.


    • Blonde&Brunette · June 16, 2016

      Hi Matt, thanks so much for the lovely comment! Considering one of us does not want kids and the other one is perfectly content with where her biological clock is at, we will keep on letting it tick.

      Good luck out there, sounds like you need it:)


  4. Matt · June 16, 2016

    I am actually in a relationship and have been for a year and a half. Completely in love. I read your blog to see just how good I have it because as we know it’s a tough world out there for singles. I meant no harm by my first comment I just think that you guys are a little immature for your ages. Which is fine! I wish you the best of luck in the dating world as well.


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